Everyone handles loss in their own way, but there are some common money mistakes people make after the death of a spouse. The following are four suggestions to help your finances weather this vulnerable time.
Don’t Rush Important Decisions
Grief is powerful. It alters the way we think and can affect memory function, as well as our ability to focus. If major decisions can wait, it’s best to put them aside for a while. It’s okay to pause. Well-meaning friends and relatives will likely offer unsolicited advice, but now is not the time to be moving money around, unless it’s really necessary. Instead, allow yourself the space to process emotions.
Perhaps one of the most common money mistakes someone can make in this situation is to go on a spending spree. When a bereaved spouse attempts to move on or distract his or herself with retail therapy, or vacations, it can quickly lead to a downward financial spiral.
Money Mistakes on the Home Front
Sometimes a surviving spouse wants to hold on to the home they shared with their partner, and those memories they cherish there. But other times it may seem too painful not to sell right away. Maybe you no longer need as much space, or hope to relocate closer to family. All of those reasons are valid. Still, try to defer any major decisions for a few months.
Even considerations such as paying off the mortgage might sound responsible, but consider meeting with a financial planner to ensure you’re thinking clearly and won’t be strapped for cash down the road.
Review Your Finances and Estate Plan
When you feel up to reviewing your finances, revise a budget. Spending needs will be different with one less person in the house, and you might choose to make some lifestyle changes. If you weren’t responsible for handling financial decisions in the past, be certain you fully understand your investments, sources of income, and all expenses, to avoid money mistakes.
At this time, it’s also a good idea for the surviving spouse to review his or her own estate plan. Please contact us at Lewman Law for further information and assistance. Our office can be reached at (925) 447-1250.